NEWS.com.au | Australian Defence Force denies it has banned employees using 'he' and 'she' NEWS.com.au THE Australian Defence Force has denied soldiers would be banned from addressing each other as “he” or “she” in an effort to reduce bullying. Ben Graham. news.com.auAugust 6, 201811:30am. Video; Image ... Australian Defence Force guide bans soldiers from saying 'him' and 'her' to avoid LGBTI offence Army responds to word ban reports |